Jerry is the manager of a restaurant in America. He & \" }: c3 g3 }- ^; L _" w
is always in a
5 r# k7 @! H. z1 P; l4 hgood mood and always has something positive to say.' f5 d- p3 a+ z* H
When someone would ask
- ?4 o0 p5 `( @$ O9 I' Qhim how he was doing, he would always reply, "If I1 \$ ~# @0 [- r5 _- o5 w
were any better, I 3 G7 {( r. k8 ?$ @& @5 I+ E8 B
would be twins!"
' T2 ^6 v6 w% `2 C( j# ^Many of the waiters at his restaurant quit their jobs: Z! E1 z% n1 J4 u4 }4 \3 ~
when he changed $ z" C, v3 J6 T
jobs, so they could follow him around from restaurant6 G. {- e+ e- S1 z+ S( V# q8 q
to restaurant. 6 W; w5 P1 E2 H. ^# X
The reason the waiters followed Jerry was because of
) M2 M0 w! h$ H9 w! Ohis attitude. , E7 b m0 ]& {* Y) J
He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having
) G2 B1 m2 x+ o8 r& U) ]a bad day, Jerry
$ I% n+ n) y6 M) vwas always here, telling the employee how to look on l4 y2 c, f" H' y+ L
the positive side
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- ~. L! w1 j/ V. s; vSeeing this style really made me curious, so one day I' F! t U0 T7 {4 F
went up to Jerry , a7 C" @7 m. P. q5 G: n0 I
and asked him, "I don't get it!
3 ` t( y, e. S8 i8 yNo one can be a positive person all of the time. How
5 z6 u* a" x: K) ~# ]0 e) ldo you do it?" ) b5 Z6 ]3 \* R* F' |
Jerry replied,
- q) @" b; b/ t- l0 g+ `"Each morning I wake up and say to myself, I have two
- c3 B$ j( q! O' U* D8 P6 p$ cchoices today. I : W1 P( H0 k% R
can choose to be in a good mood or I can choose to be
) U- Q0 d$ g) _. Pin a bad mood. I : p- ]" t9 v* X1 o# t! l% I$ u0 x
always choose to be in a good mood. : N, T7 H$ ] l: X! ?( z
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Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a# d0 e' A4 f" |9 M
victim or I can
. M4 \" |0 g6 g* Rchoose to learn from it. I always choose to learn from
, z1 ^! I: R3 K) yit. Every time 6 n' Y( f' K+ e( l! J5 N. I
someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to
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complaining or I can point out the positive side of
% I }4 b2 W( Olife. I always
! K1 t+ q7 H" c9 p: }" ]choose the positive side of life."
3 d, Z4 |/ p# _4 y0 D"But it's not always that easy," I protested. ( [' U! a9 w T! O" g! ?
"Yes, it is," Jerry said "Life is all about choices.
7 \, d k, s/ t4 `0 x$ A7 ^, XWhen you cut away all the junk, every situation is a
7 R' U0 U7 O W7 [# Jchoice. You choose : }2 | b2 O* w0 O4 d' x
how you react to situations. You choose how people
5 G( b0 F' L' x& v7 \will affect your
: D- _# ^+ W3 U) A0 M: Q4 Ymood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood.
T8 o! u5 K, mIt's your choice how 1 N! Q2 H. \$ p1 r3 O9 M" n
you live your life." 3 _( H" _3 E% L6 i W# b5 k
Several years later, I heard that Jerry accidentally - ~7 q0 Y! g; }/ q& a
did something you are never supposed to do in the
4 M' o m" N& f. r" Drestaurant business: left the back door of his
0 Y N+ i$ o" r! Q prestaurant open one morning and was robbed by three 5 b( f" ?" C9 h6 y: h' E
armed men. While trying to open the safe, his hand, ; t; `$ ?- N) k+ {! \* W2 Y! H( e
shaking from nervousness slipped off the ' v$ y' M- l3 o" E
combination. The robbers panicked and shot him. 2 }+ [+ S6 a: A/ f* W; n( a5 c9 `
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Luckily, Jerry was found quickly and rushed to the
- X/ g. E0 [$ v7 \: Jhospital. After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of 1 M8 u) c2 B" O0 u- E
intensive care, Jerry was released from the hospital
) h. @3 k s6 }. K4 H) \2 Twith fragments of the bullets still in his body. - h' \' }" r0 k# w* ~
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I saw Jerry about six months after the accident. 4 M. E) b$ k- f1 L1 h* b* N) t* i
When I asked him how he was, he replied, "If I were / {7 W: Q/ ^6 [2 T6 W
any better, I'd be twins. # \) ~6 _3 H3 R/ F
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Want to see my scars?" I declined to see his wounds,
8 D' [3 H! `8 G/ Gbut did ask him what had gone through his mind as 4 F3 n3 X6 a, v( N+ ^! j: F
the robbery took place. $ e6 ^- S) [1 ^4 |; W
" O! S5 p+ m+ {% J/ `6 t0 h3 |"The first thing that went through my mind was that 7 f; Q* k, w, Z) b0 }
I should have locked the back door," Jerry replied. x8 g* l. @" T2 s M
"Then, after they shot me, as I lay on the floor, I 6 {4 |: v1 L( v0 v; m
remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to
( ]1 K" i2 E; Plive or choose to die. I chose to live." 6 B# e, G$ r$ e2 ^9 B5 t! E
* X5 ~: e5 h5 C8 g2 Q"Weren't you scared?" I asked. Jerry continued, "The . z p& Z. N# F# k4 N6 u: B; X
paramedics were great. They kept telling me. I was
; _4 j4 Q3 W& P/ N: z K1 o6 Tgoing to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the
4 T+ x! m7 _2 s+ l9 [Emergency Room and I saw the expressions on the
/ Z N3 G$ U" }faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really ( x" M; n2 E0 h ]
scared. In their eyes, I read 'He's a dead man.' I + ~2 P. |: ]3 ~1 a$ E7 a1 P! M, a$ C
knew I needed to take action." % j' j5 A* h4 `+ @. {: |+ t4 ~
"What did you do?" I asked. "Well, there was a big
L" q9 \; q* A# Z5 [1 Bnurse shouting questions at me," said Jerry. "She 9 H$ z& j+ D+ S; n( I) n7 V2 j
asked if I was allergic to anything."
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( Q. @5 Q7 \" {6 ~ q'Yes,' I replied. The doctors and nurses stopped 6 Q+ L2 _4 k/ z8 J6 U' y6 I: l
working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep
, L- g/ X' |) [9 D" @" _0 ~ breath and yelled, 'Bullets!' Over their laughter, I
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told them, 'I am choosing to live. Please operate on
6 B( t4 q/ Y, w% j: ame as if I am alive, not dead'." : n n6 K- H6 `8 M' e
Jerry lived thanks to the skill of his doctors, but
. T+ ~/ ^3 r% Y& Qalso because of his amazing attitude. I learned from # W. y% j& N7 O: s% X; F4 Y( S! ~
him that every day you have the choice to either
4 D) v1 j" R [4 K; s, J% ?5 |enjoy your life or to hate it. 2 Q* I1 N8 \) M/ G9 R
The only thing that is truly yours that no one can - g6 c" j, F' Q! g& c5 E
control or take from you-is your attitude, so if you
6 ]5 P* ^& u' @7 [! Fcan take care of that, everything else in life " G3 F) |( r7 W. M4 D# h
becomes much easier. % u$ b% s; s0 Y: G3 U4 o; n
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